Gossip and Criticism – do you know that these two bad guys are like slow mental poison – doing enormous harm without you knowing that they are the cause?
By the time you realize their distastrous effect, they already have made their victory in your life
Refrain from gossiping or criticizing others; remember that in order to succeed, you need to be able to do self-reflection on yourself, not others.
Why waste your time on others while you could have use the time and effort on improving yourself or pamper yourself?
1. Be a Kind Person
Don’t criticize others.
It’s easy to pinpoint faults in others, but really, it is not our duty to do so.
Not only is criticizing harmful to yourself, but you also harm the other’s person self esteem in the mean time.
Be objective towards others.
If you see faults or weaknesses in others, use that as a tool and mirror for self-reflection.
2. Be Fair Towards Others
Don’t bad mouth other people.
Don’t speak ill of people behind their back regardless of its truth, because it is unfair to them and damage their personal reputation through you.
Let the other person know if you don’t like something he/she has done or otherwise make peace with it within yourself.
Remember that by bad mouthing, you are repelling the success energies from entering your life.
Success is attracted to hardworking, intelligent and visionary individuals, not someone who is focused on pint pointing faults in others.